8.08.2007

Clarify Your Intentions

When you first start to look for a date, be very clear about your intentions. Do you want a committed love relationship that may develop into marriage, or are you just looking for a friend to go to sporting events with? Misleading people is not a viable tactic for how to find a date – instead, it will ultimately lead to resentment and a bitter relationship, or perhaps no relationship at all. Furthermore, be sure to be specific and honest about your preferences, including likes and dislikes, how you feel about long term relationships, and what your attitude toward dating and sex may be. By being forthright from the beginning you stand a much better chance of finding a compatible date for an enjoyable relationship.