Some Internet Dating Tips

Here’s some quick internet dating tips. As always, take them with a pitch salt and have a great time using the Net to meet like-minded people – it’s about fun not advice.

* Decide first on want you want from online dating sites: marriage, long-term partner, quick fling, friends, some fun?
* Read reviews of different – almost all site reviews; just search for them;
* Decide if a particular site is within your budget – don’t be fooled by ‘Join for a buck for thee days!’. Believe me, you can’t much in three days!
* Personally, if you can afford it I would recommend join at least two internet dating site, because, that way you’re more likely to meet more people and as a consequence achieve your goals quicker;
* I’m sure you are aware: never give out any personal information whatsoever until you are completely satisfied the personal you are in contact with is trustworthy;
* Before meeting some one, tell your friends and relatives of your intentions, and tell them where you are going.
* Above all – HAVE FUN!

There are just some simple internet dating tips! Dating should be enjoyable and a new experience, so treat is that way – and have a great time too!

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Finding Online Dating Romance for Yourself

You may have stumbled onto the online dating scene while surfing the Internet, and thought it looked like an interesting way to meet other singles. Or maybe a friend or colleague at work has had positive experiences with online dating, and recommended it as an alternative to the singles bars and blind dates you're grown weary of trying.

Online romance happens. And it happens to people with your background and interests, who mingle over the Internet and then date people they meet who meet their criteria and have the right interpersonal chemistry. In fact, there are sites that provide matchmaking services to people from all walks of life, educational levels, professions, economic brackets, and locations. Just browse sites and pick those that seem to fit your style and personality. Here are just a few examples of the variety of online singles circles that are available with a few clicks of the computer mouse:

* Senior Singles
* Environmentally Conscious Singles
* Christian Singles
* Jewish Singles
* Gay Singles
* College Singles
* Professional Singles
* Single Parent Singles
* Romantic Redheaded Singles Who Fish, Sew, and Drive German Cars

Well, okay, we admit that we made up that last category, but we would not be surprised if you did a thorough search and found dozens of singles who fit that specific description. The Internet community is accessed by more almost half of the people living in the USA every day, and by using Internet-based dating resources, you can an almost unlimited number of singles who share the same desire as you, namely, to meet someone great and date.

Here are some basic tips to help you begin your process of online romantic discovery:

* First, make a short list that describes the kind of person you're interested in dating. For example, "Age 20-25, athletic, enjoys dancing, non-smoker, in college or recently graduated". Or for instance, "Age 45-65, enjoys cooking at home and watching television, regular church attendance, has a child from a previous marriage."

* Whatever you want, just make notes to help you define it.

* Next, visit websites and use some of the descriptors you came up with to search for the profiles of other singles. For instance, you might do a search within the NYC area, for "Jewish, aged 30-35" Once you get results, narrow down your search by reading specific information listed in the profile. Does this person like to go to restaurants and travel? Do they have photographs I can view? Are they interested in going to the gym on a regular basis, as I do?

* Soon you will have compiled a list of potential "candidates". And most sites have a feature that allows you to save those profiles for later review.

* Once you find someone you'd like to meet, just follow the protocol for contacting them, which usually involves simply hitting a button and sending them an email.

* Keep your initial contact simple, straightforward, courteous, and to the point. For example:

* "Hi. I just read your profile and you sound so interesting. I think we may have a lot in common, and I would love to get to know you better. Please reply."

Soon your inbox may fill up with messages from others who are, like you, searching for someone to get to know in a romantic way. You're well on your way to successful romance, and you did not even have to leave your desk to find someone special.

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You may have stumbled onto the online dating scene while surfing the Internet, and thought it looked like an interesting way to meet other singles. Or maybe a friend or colleague at work has had positive experiences with online dating, and recommended it as an alternative to the singles bars and blind dates you're grown weary of trying.

Online romance happens. And it happens to people with your background and interests, who mingle over the Internet and then date people they meet who meet their criteria and have the right interpersonal chemistry. In fact, there are sites that provide matchmaking services to people from all walks of life, educational levels, professions, economic brackets, and locations. Just browse sites and pick those that seem to fit your style and personality. Here are just a few examples of the variety of online singles circles that are available with a few clicks of the computer mouse:

* Senior Singles
* Environmentally Conscious Singles
* Christian Singles
* Jewish Singles
* Gay Singles
* College Singles
* Professional Singles
* Single Parent Singles
* Romantic Redheaded Singles Who Fish, Sew, and Drive German Cars

Well, okay, we admit that we made up that last category, but we would not be surprised if you did a thorough search and found dozens of singles who fit that specific description. The Internet community is accessed by more almost half of the people living in the USA every day, and by using Internet-based dating resources, you can an almost unlimited number of singles who share the same desire as you, namely, to meet someone great and date.

Here are some basic tips to help you begin your process of online romantic discovery:

* First, make a short list that describes the kind of person you're interested in dating. For example, "Age 20-25, athletic, enjoys dancing, non-smoker, in college or recently graduated". Or for instance, "Age 45-65, enjoys cooking at home and watching television, regular church attendance, has a child from a previous marriage."

* Whatever you want, just make notes to help you define it.

* Next, visit websites and use some of the descriptors you came up with to search for the profiles of other singles. For instance, you might do a search within the NYC area, for "Jewish, aged 30-35" Once you get results, narrow down your search by reading specific information listed in the profile. Does this person like to go to restaurants and travel? Do they have photographs I can view? Are they interested in going to the gym on a regular basis, as I do?

* Soon you will have compiled a list of potential "candidates". And most sites have a feature that allows you to save those profiles for later review.

* Once you find someone you'd like to meet, just follow the protocol for contacting them, which usually involves simply hitting a button and sending them an email.

* Keep your initial contact simple, straightforward, courteous, and to the point. For example:

* "Hi. I just read your profile and you sound so interesting. I think we may have a lot in common, and I would love to get to know you better. Please reply."

Soon your inbox may fill up with messages from others who are, like you, searching for someone to get to know in a romantic way. You're well on your way to successful romance, and you did not even have to leave your desk to find someone special.

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Way to be Romantic

The ways of be romantic listed below are loosely based on the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Romantic tip number one: Read the book together and discover your love languages.

Just Called to Say Love You

One of the easiest ways to be romantic is to tell your partner that you love her, but instead of saying the words without much feeling, consider some more interesting alternatives:

* Write a love letter and mail it to your partner. If you live together, make sure your lover checks the mail when it arrives.
* Call your lover in the middle of the day just to say you love her.
* Sing a love song for your partner.
* Send flowers along with a short love note.
* Tell your partner all of the things you love about them.


Time After Time

Spending time together seems like a given in a relationship, so how could it be romantic? Well, just how significant is time spent sitting together in silence, watching TV? Think quality time instead—and here are some ideas to help you get started:

* Go for a walk together in the park.
* Turn off all of the electronics in the house and focus on each other.
* Make reservations at a fancy restaurant. Ask your partner to dress up for dinner but don’t mention which restaurant you are taking her to.
* Plan a date for the afternoon and keep the activity a surprise until you arrive.
* Participate in a hobby that your partner enjoys or attend an event that you know he enjoys.
* Have a game night. Play board or video games with each other.
* Take turns reading to each other.
* Listen to music and dance in your living room.


Material Girl

Some people love to receive gifts because of the thought involved in selecting or making the gift. If your girl (or boy) is into material things, here are some ways to impress:

* Buy some small gifts and give one to her each day for a whole week.
* Take her to the mall and observe carefully the items she is interested in. Go back to the mall without her, and buy an item as a surprise.
* Make a card for your partner.
* Use your artistic or craft skills to make a special gift.


Everything I Do…For You

Who could’ve known that taking out the garbage is a romance starter for some people? Your acts of service don’t have to stop there. Once the trash is emptied, come back inside, wash your hands, and then get started on some of these suggestions:

* Make her breakfast in bed.
* Cook a romantic candlelight dinner.
* Take his car when he isn’t using it and have it washed and waxed.
* If your partner normally does a household chore, do the chore for her.
* Hire a cleaning service for a month to give your partner a break.
* Make cards that list a duty you will perform and explain that card can be redeemed at any time.


Lets Get Physical

Finally—the good stuff! Various forms of physical touch are likely a part of your relationship already. Over time though, the romance can be lost when you kiss or have sex. Rekindle your love for each other with these tips:

* Hold hands in public.
* Give your lover a massage.
* Take a bubble bath together.
* Rub lotion all over her body.
* Make-out but refrain from having sex. Focus on all the other ways you can do to give each other pleasure.
* Sit apart from each other in the bedroom with the lights off. Take turns explaining what you would like to do with your lover. Then turn the lights back on and perform what you just talked about.


Conclusion

There are countless ways to be romantic. The best ideas come from recognizing what feels the most special to your significant other. The clues are all around you--simply take time watching and listening to discover them.

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