8.14.2007

Where to Look First

Where to look for a date depends on your circumstances and why you are interested in companionship. For example, if you only need a companion for a special event (a wedding, company party, family reunion, etc.), it may be possible to approach coworkers or casual friends with the invitation. If, on the other hand, you are interested in a more serious commitment, you will need to look for someone who can be more than a general friend. The best places to look are locations that closely match your primary interests: dating websites and online dating services often ask a series of questions about your hobbies, personality, and preferences in order to match you with a similar individual. If you have specialized needs, such as interracial preferences or you are a senior citizen, there are customized locations that can incorporate that information as well to help you find that special someone.
Other options for finding a date include spreading the word to your friends and family and inviting blind date setups or even placing a personal ad in order to let others know that you are interested in meeting people.